Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female full-time employee in my 20s who works as a restaurant manager. I need some advice regarding a cook who’s a contract employee. I’ve been a manager for thre...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female college student in my 20s, and I need some advice regarding my meddlesome mother. Every morning, my mother checks my outfit and my hair and if she doesn’t app...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a housewife in my 20s, I got married in February to a man my own age and I would like some advice. In the last month of my pregnancy in March, my sleeping husband left h...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female part-time worker in my 50s. I’m seeking advice about my husband, who indulges in psychological abuse toward me. My husband runs a small company. He is always ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female high school student. I’m worried about my relationship with my mother and also about my future. We have no savings and my father isn’t around. I also don’...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female nurse in my 40s. I’d like some advice about my older sister. My sister has had a habit of stealing things since her childhood, and has been reprimanded for it...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female high school student preparing for my university entrance exams. I’m worried by my sexual feelings toward a teacher. The teacher is single and in his 30s. He’...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a homemaker in my 30s raising a daughter who is about to turn 1. I am worried about my relationship with my mother. When I told my mother about my pregnancy, she said, “I...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male company employee in my 50s. I’d like some advice about my relationship with my wife, who works a part-time job. I haven’t had physical relations with my wife ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 70s. I want to consult you about my grandchildren. My son got divorced 15 years ago. Soon after that, my grandchildren were living nearby, but they didn...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a housewife in my 40s. I don’t want go to my parents’ funerals. In today’s parlance, my mom and dad would be called “toxic parents.” They used to order me aroun...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male office worker in my 50s. My thoughts have not come together on how to deal with my daughter, who’s in her second year of high school. I live in a five-person hou...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 50s. I’m seeking advice about my mother, who’s in her late 70s and lives far from me. My mother was diagnosed with dementia, but she manages to live ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m the mother of a son in my 50s, and I’m so frustrated with my son’s bad manners at mealtime. He’s a third-year high school student and he’s always glued to his sm...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 70s. My son’s wife won’t let my granddaughter wear the clothes that I bought for her. I haven’t had the opportunity to buy clothes for my granddaug...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 50s. I’m worried that my single older sister is addicted to shopping. My sister works at a company and lives together with our mom. She manages both h...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 50s. I’m worried about my relationship with my sister and her family. My sister, who’s one year older than me, developed early and has always fallen fo...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male part-time worker in my 20s. I’m still wracked with doubt about what I should have done when I saw a certain family while shopping at the supermarket. There were...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a female high school student. I am at a loss, wondering whether I should give up on going to college. My parents are not divorced, but have been living separately for 15 ye...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female university student in my late teens. I’m wondering what to do about my slightly older sister, who has started dieting. I myself have suffered from an eating di...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 40s. I work as a housekeeper, but I want to leave the family I’m responsible for now. The family is composed of a father in his 50s and a teenage daughte...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 70s and I’ve been married for more than 40 years. Every year I get angry at my husband on three occasions. I’ve been frustrated about this for many y...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 60s. I’d like to consult with you about my husband, who’s in his 70s and is a tobacco lover. My husband is very fond of cigarettes, even the electronic...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a man in my 50s. Several months ago I became head of my current department, and since then I’ve been exasperated by a subordinate who’s a total perfectionist. He dem...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my late 60s. I’d like to confer with you about my husband, who left me about 20 years ago. I constantly fought with him over his loose spending habits wh...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 50s. I lost my only daughter to illness eight years ago. She was eight years old at the time. I’d like to consult with you about my husband. I know t...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a 40-something woman who works a sales job. I’m having a hard time getting along with the older women on my sales team. These women are all around age 60. They’re co...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a homemaker in my 50s and I need your advice about my daughter, who is in her late 20s. For about a year, she’s been seeing a man who is in his mid-40s, divorced and has...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 30s. I work as a company employee, and I’d like some advice about my job. Ever since I was promoted to management last year, all kinds of people have bee...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female company employee in my 30s. I resent my close friends and mother-in-law as I’m angered by the presence of full-time housewives. I worked hard to obtain my sta...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female part-time worker in my 20s. I’d like some advice regarding one of my friends who recently told me she plans to start living with a man she came to know through ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female student in my late teens. I can’t forgive my father, who cheated on my mother. I first became aware of his behavior when I was in kindergarten, when I found a ...

Dear Troubleshooter: My husband of 60 years passed away in February last year. It happened so suddenly, and I still feel a major sense of loss. My husband had a bright personality and was a hard w...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 60s. I’d like some advice regarding my son, who’s approaching 50. He’s not my biological child — he’s the child of my husband, who’s in his...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 60s. I need advice about my older brother, who lives in our family home. The home is a rental property, but the landlord doesn’t take rent. Instead I pay...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male office worker in my 20s. I’ve never dated anyone of the opposite sex before. I have a normal interest in women. During my college days, I liked a girl in my sem...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a man in my 80s. I am worried about my two sons in their 50s. I live with my eldest son. A high school graduate, he’s never had a steady job and hasn’t worked over the...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male public servant in my 30s. I’m worried about noise trouble. I moved to housing for public workers with my wife and three children. The day after we started living ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female part-time worker in my 40s and have children of elementary and junior high school ages. I’m worried about how I can live a more ordinary life. Nearly 10 years...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male company employee in my 50s and I’m troubled because my wife, to whom I have been married for more than 30 years, has become lazy over the last several years. Sh...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a homemaker in my 50s with a daughter in high school and a son in junior high school. I’d like your advice on how I should interact with them. My daughter has always w...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a female part-time worker in my 40s. I would like to know your opinion about fertility treatment. I got married in my mid-30s and gave birth two years later. I wanted to ha...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female office worker in my 20s. I’m fed up with my husband, who boasts on social media about how much he helps with our child. I returned to the office and began wor...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a male university student in my late teens. I want to consult with you on the relationships in my family. I live with 50-something parents who both work and a younger si...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female sixth-grade elementary school student. It is so hard to listen to my parents complain. My mother hates my father’s family so much. She has arguments with my f...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a housewife in my 40s. I’m seeking advice about my mother, who lives alone in her own house. About three years ago, she was diagnosed with initial-stage symptoms of de...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 50s. I need your advice about my relationship with a friend from elementary school. She underwent a medical checkup and was found to have a disease. She told...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a female office worker in my 40s and I recently lost my mother. Every day I end up thinking about being with my mother again. When she was alive, the two of us lived toge...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a woman in my 50s seeking advice about my self-centered, greedy sister-in-law. Though my daughter is attending a two-year university, we still keep her used clothes in ...

Dear Troubleshooter: I am a male company employee in my 40s. Tailgating offenses have been a talking point of late. I am worried because sometimes I tend to resort to such dangerous driving. The o...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a female company employee in an administrative position in my 50s. I’m deeply troubled because my husband has been cheating on me with another woman. The woman works a...

Dear Troubleshooter: I’m a company employee in my 40s. I need advice about my son, who is a third-year high school student. He’s scheduled to take an entrance exam for a private university, bu...